Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Intellectual thinking vs. Emotional thinking

Decision making occurs in every persons life whether it is conflicting or helpful. People have to make their own decisions based on how they interpret things. Situations or problems are better being solved using intellectual thinking rather than emotional thinking. Basing things off of intellect gives a person better results because they are using logic to solve their problems. Intellectual thinking allows a person to think of cause and effect during their current situation. It allows a person to think it through and all the things that can possibly go right or wrong. Thinking intellectually gives more logic and clear thoughts based on fact needed in order to solve a problem of any sort. Basing decisions off of emotions can lead to a wrong decision or a negative outcome. Many people let their emotions get the best of the when it comes to making a decision and the outcome is not what they expect. People allow their feelings to get in the way of what is right and blind them from the truth. Some people can therefore can not determine right from wrong or good from bad because their emotions are over powering their intellectual thinking.

Thursday, May 17, 2012

The importance of LOVE

Every human being in the world has essential needs. Love is one of the most important needs of survival. One reason why love is an essential need for humans is because it allows compassion to be shared between people. Love is shown to a newborn baby by its mother as she caresses it and shows it all of her love. A mother nurtures her child and gives it extra attention and care to help them grow up in a positive aspect. The connection and love shared between mother and child creates a bond that it hard to be broken. If the mother shows her child that she will always have tons of love for them it will forever keep happiness and comfort between them.

Love is a great aspect that ties people together in a way to help one another. It brings honesty, affection and creates friendship. Telling someone you love them or showing them by hugging, talking or just smiling shows that you care about their feelings. When someone is down, reminding them that you're there can make them feel much better. Without love many people will become depressed and lonesome.

 Without love people would  be unhappy and would not know how to express and share their feelings with others. They would become isolated from other human beings and cut off from the world. Love, along with other essential needs help people feel positive about themselves and makes them embrace family as well as friendship. Love is expressed through two or more people and is needed to make as well as keep companionship. No one would have friends if love and care were not involved.

Friday, May 4, 2012

Through the Eyes of REJECTION!

Constant rejection when having feelings towards someone else can be painful to an individual. Some people get emotionally distressed or a sense of heart ache. My story tells about a boy who continously tries to get the attention and win the heart of a young girl. Even though the girl never physically rejected him herself, she had others who influenced her to stay away. The boy felt heart ache but still continued to arrive at her house with a gift numerous times. She finally ignored everyone else's comments and feelings toward the boy and showed him that she cared and appreciated it the whole way through.

Friday, April 20, 2012

Blog 2: Responsibility

Responsibility to me is being able accept and take action for ones duties or situations. Being responsible is acknowledging something and changing it, fixing it, or simply making it better. Being responsible gives a person their own personal job and goals to complete and challenges to succeed in. Responsibility can lead a person further to being independent and doing thing on their own. I believe that any person who has been in a sticky situation or any situation at all will rightfully know if they should take some responsiblily for it or not. I think that if a person can name one thing that they could have, should have, should not have or did do during the time then they do take some part and have some responsibility as the other person or people. My friend was dog sitting our neighbors puppy one weekend for a little extra cash. She let me come over to study also while she was there since we were all so close. There was a hole in the gate in the backyard where the puppy was allowed to go and play twice a day. My friend and I got sidetracked and did not notice she went out the back door and into the yard. When we realized she was gone we checked everywhere then we went to the yard and seen the hole. The only conclusion was that she used it to escape. Our neighbor failed to mention that the gate needed repairing and the hole was big enough for the puppy. In this situation my friend was responsible for watching the puppy, but the owner is too because she did not get the fence repaired and never mentioned it. I take responsibility for just being there and distracting her from her duty. So we all take responsibility and accept our part in finding the puppy together.